Sex fast: This is why couples should abstain from sex for 14 days
It’s a well-known fact that couples in long-term relationships don’t get it on in bed like they did at the beginning. But what can help against this sex lull? The online sex store Orion has an interesting tip to give the sex life in the partnership momentum again.
Two weeks only fumbling, no sexual intercourse
Sex renunciation for a more exciting sex life with the partner: This advises the online sex store Orion couples who are in a long-term relationship. Because as is known, the desire for each other decreases over time. But if you practice abstinence for a certain period of time, your sexual desire for your partner will automatically increase again – at least that’s what Orion claims.
Specifically: According to Orion, only groping should be done for 14 days, but classic sexual intercourse should be avoided. Suitably to at present taking place 40-tägigen chamfering time between Ash Wednesday and Maundy Thursday the eroticism dealer guesses thus to a kind Sex chamfering, with which Petting is permitted however – so to speak chamfering light.
Orion calls three positive effects, which are to cause the conscious sex renouncement with pairs:
- Increased self-love, as one’s own needs become conscious again.
- Sexual fantasy is stimulated and desire for each other increases
- New types of play emerge, as it is no longer just about the orgasm.
Sex can also be satisfying without orgasm – especially for women.
Regular sex has the catch that over time there is a reduced release of the happiness hormone dopamine in the brain. This is the consequence of getting used to being able to satisfy one’s desire as often and whenever one wants. Ultimately, the desire for each other then decreases and daily sex suddenly becomes the exact opposite – namely a real sex lull.
However, if couples consciously forgo classic sex for a certain period of time and replace it with softer practices, such as petting, this has the effect of withdrawal. As a result, the desire for the partner increases again, the imagination is stimulated and people become more experimental in bed. In short, sex life is revived.
Above all, according to Orion, couples who temporarily fast sex expand their sexual horizons. It is recognized that not every sexual activity must necessarily result in orgasm. That also sex without orgasm can be very satisfying.
Finally, a previously unpublished Orion sex report shows that while 90 percent of men and 60 percent of women usually or always reach orgasm during couple sex, 20 percent of women rarely or never climax. At the same time, more women than men say that sex can be satisfying even without an orgasm.
In plain language that means: Particularly the female sex would have again more fun at the Sex, if it must go not always only around the climax. And that’s exactly what Sex Fasting is designed to raise awareness of.
